The Day I Met Tim Ferriss

I love goals. I’ve been setting them for years. I’ve got quite a few done, but many more loom over me spurning me forward. How I began setting goals is a somewhat vague recollection, but I’ll explain as best I can. I think that goals began to take focus between 12-18 years old. I wasn’t constantly setting goals and using visualization techniques, but I was making lists. I could go on about lists for thousands of words, and a little later down the line, I will. But for now, let’s just say I started making simple lists at 12. The freedom of a blank page and pen captivated me. What am I going to put on my list? What do I want to do? Both questions are also a very foundational element of goal setting—understanding the objective (goal). What is desired? For me the process of living list driven made me suited for making a list of goals. I believe setting goals and making lists is a skill like any other that can be developed and improved en route to future mastery. I continue making lists and setting goals and will likely until I cease to breathe.

Okay why all the goal rhetoric? “I get it you like lists.” What does any of this have to do with your catchy title? I’ll explain, don’t hasten to the headline and miss a chance to understand my intention of valuable takeaways sprinkled throughout a true story. I did meet Tim Ferriss, but I don’t think it would have happened without having that as a clearly defined goal on a list I made in 2012. No, though the meeting was unexpected and indeed fortuitous, I do not believe it was an accident. I think timing can suggest something is accidental, or ‘by chance’. But, looking at the broader scope of multitudes of simultaneous occurrences in visible and non-visible dimensions you can’t deny the power of intentions. Why so many big words in one sentence? It was my intention. Why did I get to meet Tim, and not perhaps have this goal go unrealized as words on a piece of paper? Intentions. It was something that I kept in my mind and intentionally gave focus to. I chose the outcome and had faith that it would happen one day. I’ve learned that forcing timing rarely works, and I’m working on allowing things to be serendipitous, intentionally. Okay, that’s one of my favorite words, don’t know if that’s apparent yet but I’ll lay off of it for the rest of this piece I promise.

I’ll include the text of a piece I’ve written on Medium here to continue the narrative, and I’ll add the YouTube video here once I’ve gotten the music added and it’s uploaded. The video will be #21 of the #52WkVideoChallenge and its taken even longer than any other not because of time conflicts but through more effort on making it a good use of 5-6 minutes of a viewer’s time. Making sure it’s concise and as good as I can do with my abilities right now. That being it’s done and here it is:

 


 

 

 

This story has both the accidental and the purposeful. A balance between dumb luck, and the willingness to act and commit. Here’s my piece from Medium:

 

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Why when I put an intent on paper does it get power? What do you think of this post?

 

Let me know in the Comments below. Grateful, and hope to inspire you through my own chasing of dreams.

I’m At Brendon Burchard’s Worlds Greatest Speaker Training:  Review (day 1) 

8:46AM
Registered and ready for the 9:00 door opening. The lanyard we chose determines where we enter the conference at. The Santa Clara Mariott is a nice hotel. Nicer then I thought it would be. The room keys are pictures of the Motivation Manifesto and all staff have been very nice. The Burchard team have all been wonderfully kind and energized.
1:45pm

Wow. Just wow. I felt part way through the morning that this is the beat investment I’ve ever made. Without a doubt. The value from Brendon, Bo, and Roger is staggering, tremendous and important. I’m not selling this program or profiting from it. This is genuinely how I feel sitting here on break having lunch. The nuances of speaking on stage, storytelling, physicality and voice, taught by some of the best in the world. It’s only half way through day 1 but the takeaways are immense. And I will certainly share the core of what I’ve learned. But far more apt then to type will be to make a video and speak these takeaways. Practicing the practical application rather then a written listacle: “top 10 takeaways from Worlds Greatest Speaker.”  Even though from a SEO and total hits to my blog standpoint it would generate more traffic. I think that would be a shortcut, and I need the practice and time spent on a video. The video may not be released at the same time as this post so if you’re reading this then look for the video soon, or comment on the post and bug me to get it done.

8:15pm
Day 1 wrapped up. Honestly surprised it’s only been one day. Learning so much and so inspired by the fellow people at this event and the presenters. I have much work to do on my journey but this is a dream come true and the first progress I’ve ever made towards this particular Renaissance pursuit of Oration and speaking.
More to come tomorrow.

Grateful.

Where I stand in 2013

This post is basically an inventory and brief summary of where I stand in each category of achievement that’s requisite to achieving my own version of success.

Every so often it’s good to take a step back, analyze progress (or stagnation), and make adjustments.

Learning Languages:

Japanese:

– Read hiragana and katakana but writing needs work

-An ear for pronunciation

-Limited vocabulary

Spanish:

-Decent pronunciation

-Kitchen Vocabulary

-Bad words

-Sounding out reading, but lack comprehension

French:

-Conjugating regular verbs

-Ear for pronunciation/conversation

-Latent vocabulary & reading/writing from high-school.

Business(es):

-I have some great start-up ideas swirling around.  I’m very confident in 3/10 of the ideas, but have yet to take any action towards launch or lean launch.

-Potential for a pop-up restaurant is high. I have a good network within the hospitality industry, and the market is prime for a great pop up.

-My dreams of film/TV production are simply dreams right now.

-Using apps and technology to automate income is similar to my start-up ideas; no action has been taken towards realization other then capturing ideas on paper. I’ve got one rock solid idea though, and about 8 mediocre ones.

-Developing a school would be a legacy project, and I’ve yet to build the requisite resources or fully master many teachable skills.

Health and Fitness:

-The quest for the six-pack is ongoing. Starting to lean out and loose the last 5% body fat that it takes. (for progress shots see my Instagram)

-Personal trainer certification is a goal for the next 90 days. Studying between 4-10 hours a week.

-Healthy eating is becoming a passion. making better choices and structuring a diet based on nutritional benefit and balance is something I study between 5-10 hours a week.

-Yoga has helped me immensely since I started 2 years ago. I’m still not as flexible as I’m striving for, but quite an improvement. Always end my training sessions with yoga/stretching.

Martial Arts:

-Reached a meager yellow belt in Judo at age 13, but have not practiced since.

-Starting from scratch in this field.

Music:

-Played trumpet for 2 years in junior high.

-Messed around with DJ/production software: Reason, Traktor.

Food:

-Started cooking at a young age— starting with eggs at age 8.

-Immersed in the hospitality industry my whole life up this point and presently.

-Apprenticed and worked under one of the best chefs in my city, and a crew of renowned sous-chefs, for a year and a half. The restaurant made #3 on a list of Best New Restaurants in Texas.

-Studying techniques, recipes, and ingredients from a wide variety of sources.

-Shifting focus recently to nutrient dense, and maximally healthy dishes/ingredients, while still maintaining flavor development.

-Achieved a good flow while cooking on the line, loved to improve this day in day out.

Love:

-I’ve been in love once, maybe twice.

-Quite a bit to do and accomplish in this area.

Travel:

-I have traveled internationally 3 times: United Kingdom (age 8), Mexico (age 18), and Japan (age 24). Within North America, I’ve seen a good deal of western Canada, parts of the southern United States and Texas …far from well traveled, but I’ve traveled enough to give me the “travel bug”.

-I have only lived abroad once, and that’s my current 3+year stint in Texas.

Learning Wealth:

-Studying Napoleon Hill, Rhonda Byrne, Darren Hardy and others.

-Recently had the most money I’d ever had at one time.

-Make small donations monthly to 2 organizations through my job.

Driving:

-Driven some wonderful vehicles.

-Racing and drifting have not been attempted or learned.

-Drive often presently, so skill is improving.

Art:

-Appreciating art in all its forms more and more as I age.

-Haven’t created any art since high school art class, and that was hardly considerable.

Properties/Homes:

-Currently own no properties.

Teaching/Helping/Giving Back:

-I’m acquiring more skills and knowledge in order to better teach people in the future.

-Set an example of good work ethic in jobs that I’ve had in my career, but working smarter is ongoing.

Agriculture:

-I’ve planed 4 trees.

-I have an aloe plant

-Starting to grow Chia.

As you can see from this inventory, I’ve got a long way to go in almost everything. This doesn’t deter me, nor should it deter anybody who sets out to achieve anything. I’d rather take the time to assess where I am, so that I can always look back as I progress and reach benchmarks. As opposed to saying “there’s too much work to be done” I say “here’s a way to measure my work against something. Everybody starts somewhere…

Started from the bottom…–Drake

Moving forward I’ll be detailing posts in each of these categories as I learn and experience new things, but also delve into what I’ve learned in the past in more detail.

Thanks for reading, and leave me any comments you have.