How To Unleash Your Soul (With Guidance From Tony Robbins)

The Massive Crowd Photo Credit: Not Known (let me know)

The Massive Crowd
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I was there. I was in Dallas when the fire started—the fire that won’t go out. I attended Unleash The Power Within, Anthony Robbins entry level event. And I was unleashed. I’ve definitely been unplugged from the matrix for many years now, but the process of mastery is never ending. Realizing my full potential will require a lifetime commitment and I enthusiastically accept that demand.

Fire At The Gates Photo Credit: Lina Marie Acosta

Fire At The Gates
Photo Credit: Lina Marie Acosta

Before I begin I must preface this. Throughout this piece, if there is a sentence or phrase in bold/italics is a direct takeaway from the seminar. Anything that is bold is an outstanding piece of information, and anything that is bold, and italicized is a gemstone of wisdom that I hope you take and enrich your life to the utmost with. All of the phrases that fall into the categories above are not my own, I don’t own the copyrights to them. I didn’t explicitly dissect and reproduce the whole seminars curriculum, just extracted things from my notes and memories—some things may be slightly misquoted or not exact verbatim.  If there is anything that violates any precedent or infringes let me know and I’ll revise the piece.

WHY?

Why did I decide to go? I decided because I’m evolving. Because I refuse to allow myself to get caught up in a life that I didn’t consciously design. Because I need every opportunity to grow. Because I want to contribute beyond myself and learn the best ways to make that happen. Did I answer your question? Hope so. There’s another underlying reason—I was pulled.

I want to tell you everything that happened that fateful weekend and how it has been a catalyst for several areas of my life that I’m committed to improving. I want to tell you all this for a few reasons: firstly, to provide value to YOU—the reader—I want you to take something out of this article that is inspirational and actionable. Secondly, to review the copious notes and memories that are stored in my notebooks and brain—re-living and re-integrating the teachings and wisdom that I was exposed to. Lastly, I want to share all of this to truly express a truth—we have 100% responsibility for our experience of life. 

I am sharing the experience in 4 parts: What happened before the event leading up to it, what happened at the event, what’s been happening after, and the most valuable takeaways. If you’re only interested in the takeaways scroll to the bottom I don’t blame you. But, there are insights sprinkled throughout the before, during and after parts that are just as important. Let’s begin.

BEFORE THE EVENT

I committed to attending Unleash the Power Within and seeing Anthony Robbins over two months before it was scheduled to take place. I made it a MUST to go there and learn. I leveraged my resources and took action to make it happen. Once I was registered there was a homework assignment in the form of getting a program from Tony and completing it. Unlike in school, I actually did my homework and enjoyed it. I took a course called ‘Creating Lasting Change’ and it was very relevant and deep with acuity. I told a few people that I’d be going to this event—most of them didn’t “get it”. But, then again most people misunderstand me. In the days leading up to the even,t I began to use Tony’s Hour of Power and Priming morning rituals to start my day in a peak state (sooooo much peak state coming up). This was good. I actually love doing this ritual in the morning. In 2015 I spent a few months consistently practicing but fell out of the habit (much to my detriment). I think one of the most important things I did before the event was this: I created an R.P.M. Plan. See I try to study Tony’s work the way Tony himself would study it—intensely focused and taking action on it. What’s an R.P.M. Plan? It’s a method Anthony Robbins teaches to bring intent and focus to how we use our time. It stands for Results, Purpose, Massive Action Plan. What do you want? Why do you want it? And How are you going to get there? (what’s your  M.A.P. ?) Here are a few links to resources on this methodology (PDF, WEBSITE). I did this process before attending to get clear on what I wanted, why I wanted it and how I was going to make it happen.

Take Massive Action Photo Credit: Brenda Sisson

Take Massive Action
Photo Credit: Brenda Sisson

In summary, before the event, I prepared and became intentional. Attending an event of this magnitude should be approached with a reverence. You’re investing time into it that you can never get back (the money you can get back) so why not plan and prepare to be fully committed?

DURING THE EVENT (How to Get the Most Out of a Seminar)

I was there to play. I was all in. During Unleash the Power Within I was there to learn as much as possible, and immerse myself in Anthony Robbins material in a fun and social environment. I was there to create breakthroughs. I gave everything I had at the event: laughing, dancing, clapping, screaming, crying, shaking my ass, and just going “full out” as the culture calls it. By the fourth day, my voice had completely gone. Couldn’t make a peep. But, that ended up being a fun exercise in non-verbal communitcation and listening. I gave my entire being to an active involvement and providing the necessary effort in each moment. In order to make that happen, I consciously decided to not utilize my phone as much as possible—which is more feasible than you think. I left only sending a handful of text messages, posting once on Instagram and posting one to two daily updates on Snapchat. I knew that being there wouldn’t be nearly as valuable if I was on my phone constantly distracted. I actually put my phone on airplane mode during the event, and I’m grateful I chose to be that way. There were lots of people I noticed doing otherwise, but that’s their choice and path I shouldn’t judge. But, a teaching we learned there is whatever you learn is linked to the emotional state in which you learned it. So knowing that; being happy, enthusiastic and free of distractions was my prerogative. Thousands seemed to be on the same page.

At events of this scale (7000+ participants), there is an energy in the air. A vibe that is strong and pronounced. I met some amazing people, and proximity is power. I definitely got some great contacts and networked, but I truly became most focused on the overall experience and learning the most I could rather than handing out business cards wilily-nilly. During this seminar, I was constantly taking notes and absorbing everything I possibly could. Sitting for 50h during a weekend could be monotonous, so the organizers and Tony continually had the audience change our physiology and enter into a peak state. I loved this! The repetition of this procedure let us embed it deeply in our nervous system and we created movement patterns to trigger this and a state of absolute certainty. I’m so grateful to have this tool in my arsenal for my future endeavors.

So what does that exactly mean? Basically several times a day we would celebrate like we just won the SuperBowl. Cheering, screaming, dancing, emoting, and allowing a full blast unleashing of our inner soul. I remember thinking that this is so awesome—how many people practice celebrating like this or ever even know how it feels? They settle for seeing it on TV, seeing others celebrate a championship or major achievement. They don’t have it in their own nervous system—they can’t summon it at will. Of all the skills we learned, I think this is one of the most powerful and potentially overlooked. Learning how to celebrate at maximum intensity and what that feels like. It feels incredible. I now understand how it will feel, and what I will do at the crowning moments in my life. Also, how I can bring added power to the small victories too. Who cares what other people think? I’m doing it as often as possible.

 

Unleashed!  Photo Credit: Trinh Tran-Shiozaki

Unleashed!
Photo Credit: Trinh Tran-Shiozaki

After our first day, entering peak state many times, we were faced with overcoming and releasing our biggest fear—then walking over hot coals to show that we can conquer anything. My biggest fear was rejection. I participated with my full focus towards the activities to overcome it, and I honestly know now I no longer am controlled by that fear. It has been released and no longer perpetuates my mind. If it were to rise up at any future moment I would face it and own it—no doubt in my mind. After that, we entered peak state again and walked across fire! To be totally truthful I wasn’t scared beforehand, or during—I was ready for any pain that may have occurred. Fortunately, none did, and I along with thousands of others rose up to the challenge and defeated hesitancy and fright.

The next day there was some extremely negative news coverage that was circulating on the internet. I got multiple text messages and emails asking if I was burned and maimed. Laughable really. In actuality, less than 1% got minor burns, but the media chose to blow it way out of proportion and spread fear. (Heres a nice piece from Inc,and Huffington Post on what really happened)

Later in the program Tony was in the audience and noticed a young lady sitting there. Her name was Annie, she was 6 years old. He asked her “did you walk on fire?”

“Yes.” She said.

“Did you burn your feet off and die?” he asked.

“No.” She said shaking her head adorably.

That memory really stands out in my mind. So many memories do. It’s hard to even properly write how this experience has shaped my life and everything I’ve learned, but I’ll keep trying.

Another major thing we did at Unleash the Power Within was to take on 3 limiting beliefs we held, destroy them and replace them with 3 new empowering beliefs. I literally felt my brain rewire and I can’t even say the old beliefs anymore—let alone write them down. But I would love to share some of my new beliefs. My old bullshit beliefs were in 3 categories: financial, relationship, and ethical. My old bullshit belief in finance was replaced with this empowering gem—money is a skill that I am learning and mastering. That’s what plays in my head now not the bullshit. It’s awesome. I literally have something short circuit in my brain if I even try to think or say the old beliefs. I just go to the new ones now. It’s amazing.

Can this happen to anybody that attends? I think only if you really give your best effort and focus to the exercise. If you’re in your head saying “what is this crap?” then that question is not going to provide you with the right frame of mind or answer. But if you visualize and truly block out everything but the task at hand then yes I believe that a willing student can learn to do this. I understood how this process worked intellectually, but to see it and feel it work was something else entirely. Taking notes boosts information retention to 40-50% (from 10% if just passively listening), but interacting with energy can boost retention to 80-90%. What that means is that interacting with energy during this process of transformation is why it retained for me—whereas passively listening would have 70% less efficacy for another person.

We did so much more than I can even write about but to wrap up this section of what happened DURING THE EVENT, I’ll give a few more summations. We studied Business Mastery with Mike Melio and learned the 7 Forces of Business Mastery. This was amazing and so valuable to where I am in life right now. Studying this material as I’m starting my own business is beyond advantageous. We had the pleasure of Joseph McClendon III guiding us through many hours of ass shaking, and truth telling. He also instructed us on the day where we focused on health and wellbeing—a tremendous day and experience.

There is much more I could espouse on but it’s not only what you learn, it’s what you DO with what you learn that matters. So let’s talk about what happened and is happening still after the event.

AFTER THE EVENT (Putting it Into Practice)

When it’s not working, that’s when you know it’s working. Change your state, use the teachings. Some people go through everything and then just go back to living their “normal lives”. I simply can’t do that. I’m sure I could, but I won’t. When I got home from the seminar I took massive action. I quit two jobs the next day. Burn the boats: take the island. I understood that remaining in the same situation is not going to lead me to my intended destination or produce the result that I’m committed to. So why wait? I have contingencies in place and a small runway to work off of. Do I want my dreams or not? Simple to say the yes, harder to embody the yes. I’m not about what’s easy anymore though. Unless it’s the ease that comes from the repetition of a skill until it’s honed and automatic. That kind of ease I can dig. Just wanting “things to be easier” is not me. So I’m the perfect student for the material that was taught at Unleash the Power Within. I am going to use it. I am going to keep studying it. I am going to realize my ultimate vision of my full potential. Learning is creating a relationship between the known and the unknown. I love learning. I truly do. So with that as my attitude, I cannot ever completely fail. For in failure I will find instruction and allow my love of learning to distil truth out of tribulation. After this event, I knew that if I didn’t keep my commitment to growth and learning in order to facilitate contribution at the highest level—I could regress. I learned that conditioning and training never end on the path to mastery. Certainty is created by YOU, not your environment. As said by Anthony Robbins.

Up Close and Personal Photo Credit: Lina Maria Acosta

Up Close and Personal
Photo Credit: Lina Maria Acosta

 

I came up with this metaphor to illustrate what life is like after the event for any participant. Tony is like Amazon—a way to get anything delivered—but YOU must make use of it. That treadmill, or kettlebell, or yoga mat gathering dust does work. It’s not Amazon’s fault that after it was delivered you didn’t use it. It’s not Tony’s fault that he taught you something and you didn’t apply it repeatedly until it became a habit. We all need to utilize what’s around us, and what we know–not just understand it.

I’m putting in the work after the event to make sure that I got the most out of the investment. I will schedule review time, and continue the learning. You wouldn’t work out for a weekend and say “Well, I’m fit for life. Glad that’s done”. No. That’s not how it works. After the event is the most important. Every day is the most important. What can I do today to embody the man I strive to become? That’s a question I ask myself now.

I took so much away from Unleash the Power Within. Taking it away is great. Keeping it with me is greater.

TAKEAWAYS AND HIGH-VALUE INSIGHTS

If I bored you with my previous sections I apologize. My skills as a writer are under development and perhaps I could have been more concise. With that in mind, I’ll practice that here. As follows are some of the most vital teachings and takeaways from my experience at Unleash the Power Within.

  • Complexity is the enemy of execution.
  • You can only build on success, you can’t build on failure. 
  • Our culture reinforces blame of others.
  • Words have a biochemical effect on the body 
  • Who you spend time with is who you become.
  • Information is potential power—execution trumps information every time. 
  • Stress is a code word for FEAR.
  • We are suffering so much because we are overlooking the gifts around us.
  • Trade expectation for appreciation and our whole life changes in an instant.
  • The Past does not equal the future. Biography does not equal destiny. 
  • The culture wants you to be one thing—to keep you simple. (my blog and beliefs/values are the antithesis of this)
  • People will give up goals and dreams to meet their needs.
  • A Strategy is a system of producing a consistent result.
  • Faith is freedom.
  • A belief is a feeling of certainty about what something means.
  • CHANGE YOUR STATE! (PHYSIOLOGY)
  • There is a way beyond the way you’ve been programmed and that’s to program YOURSELF. 
  • People who succeed long term live on pull not push.
  • Only 3 things hold you back in business: 
    • Failure to anticipate
    • Lack of follow through
    • Your own psychology and mindset
  • You can’t be grateful and fearful at the same time.
  • Leaders are READERS: Minimum 30 minutes a day. (A book, not a fluff piece, social media or magazine or list-acle.)

There is a lot more I could write about the experience and countless more takeaways and insights I could share. In place of that I would say look up Anthony Robbins and listen to some of his free stuff on YouTube or get his latest podcast to let the man illustrate his teachings himself. He’s the master I’m the apprentice. I can’t currently convey his work as well as he can, but I hope I was able to at least pique your interest.

Between my writings and this taste of some of the best takeaways I gleaned, I hope I gave you some insights into what it’s like to go to Unleash the Power Within, how it has affected me, and how to make the most out of it if you did go to that or any other seminar.

If you read the whole post I’m super grateful for your time, and if you liked it please leave a comment, and if it sucked also do that. I want to get better and welcome all feedback.

A New Habit: Writing Wednesday–001

It may sometimes be here on this blog, but more likely than anything is I’ll do the majority of my Writing Wednedays over on medium. Here’s the first of what I want to be a new habit that deepens my writing practice and brings consistency to my creative weeks.

Was able to churn out over 1k words in 28 minutes, not bad. Let me know what you thought in the comments below, or write me a response on Medium.

Without further delay here’s the piece:

 

View story at Medium.com

Excuses—Free Yourself from Your Own Chains

Self Imposed Chains May Be Looming Over You, and Linking You To Your Own Demise.

Looking back on what I learned as a 25 year old, one thing stands out above everything else. My 25th year was a year in which I actually learned a lot, but my most important lesson is arguably still being absorbed and put into practice. The most important thing I discovered is to confront excuses and the power that they can hold over ones life. I spent 2014 in a huge commitment to a project, 65h weeks were on the low side of average, in a mentally and physically demanding position. In 2014 I was a Sous-Chef in a brand new restaurant. It was easy to let my health, personal desires, love, and sense of a normal life to fall by the wayside. Or at least such a commitment appeared to allow my ego to justify that as an excuse. I think all in all a second valuable lesson was what life can be like in a state of immense commitment. I didn’t practice or study music, write/blog, or develop any of my own business ideas into business plans. Misuse of my “free time” is to blame. Where does the excuse come in? I told myself that the commitment itself justified putting my true desires aside, and that I couldn’t compromise my commitment to someone else’s dreams to pursue my own. That is an excuse to stay complacent, in place, and put others interests over my own. That being said, I did accomplish one of my true desires outside of my major commitment: completing 4 Spartan Races in 11 months. I was able to attain this goal despite maintaining high performance in a role as a key management member of a busy restaurant. Surely if I can do that then I can adjust, restructure and address the excuses I made that held me back from pursuing true personal freedom.

I make excuses, and you do too if you’re being honest. Not all excuses are malevolent, and not all of a grandly deceptive nature, but overall the process of making excuses is subtly eroding away at lives of fulfillment. The human body, spirit, and mind are capable of amazing and incredible feats. The same human body, spirit, and mind will often allow a falsely justified attitude or idea (an excuse) to control itself, robbing the potential of the amazing and incredible. Excuses are created to escape responsibility for giving direction and purpose, to one’s own life. As awe-inspiring as the capabilities of the human being may be, conversely the un-inspiring excuses created by the same human being can be just as astonishing. The mind, or rather the ego takes pride in it’s creations. Subconsciously there is pride in standing by the excuse that has been formulated. Justifying excuses often takes even more effort then to change the behavior or to be accountable. Everybody has met someone standing behind an excuse with bullish stubbornness. “I can’t because… insert self-defeating statement.” When questioned or shown the fallacy of their justifications, they only entrench more, “No, I can’t because…x,y,z.” The x,y,z are reasons that they believe in their inabilities over their abilities, or fear over faith. It’s like solving a math problem, but never double checking it or verifying the validity of the answer, then finding out you got the wrong answer but trying to argue for the miscalculations merit, or that you did get the right answer. It is astounding the level of effort that someone can thrust into their false rationale of why something can’t be done, rather then redirecting that effort into solutions, or changing thoughts and behaviors.

Why Didn’t the Bird Cross the Road? He’s got an excuse just ask him.

What few people will say or realize is that change, and a life with direction require effort, but SO DOES MAKING EXCUSES. Wasting cognitive resources explaining, and defending excuses repeatedly through flawed logic is no way to become successful. I think the root is gratification. Especially in today’s society, people value instant gratification. The work required to affect positive change in life is seen as less gratifying because the reward is at the end, not the beginning. People think that by making an excuse they have avoided the problem, situation or event, thus receiving subconscious gratification immediately. The reverse is in fact true. The gratification that was felt from making and justifying an excuse to not act, grow, or change will ultimately sour into a state of un-fulfillment and fear of change. Putting in the work to change, to plan, to learn, then to become fulfilled through creating a real purposeful life is much more desirable in the long run than its counterpart. Taking the easy way out, avoiding real decisions and work, feeling a small sense of reward from avoidance, only to later have life deteriorate and collapse when the foundation of excuses crumbles, and simply cannot be vindicated any longer.

How do you overcome the propensity for the easy way out? Initially you must recognize and address this in yourself. The capabilities of our species are limitless, and constantly being defied. Latch on to the reasons why you can, versus why you can’t. Other people are pursuing, and achieving their dreams without excuses, or at least crushing the excuses into oblivion along the way. Join them. Don’t let another day, hour, or minute go by without realizing that you have the same potential to achieve as any other, you just choose not to. Choosing to live a real life, or subsisting in a state of non-action, and avoidance. Seems like an easy choice, or should when it’s spelled out in black and white. Evaluate your life as it is currently, why you’re not where you want to be, and take 100% responsibility for where you are and directing yourself towards a future that is desirable.

What has helped me face my excuses? One day in December 2013, I can pinpoint my battle against excuses taking a turn in my favor that fortuitous day. I completed a grueling 15.5 mile Spartan Beast, on 2.5 hours of sleep, and still finished in top 100 in my age group. If I can even complete the race under such circumstances how am I allowing myself to not reach that potential regularly? That day was my first step in taking on excuses head on. One day, and one event is not enough. I still created elaborate excuses throughout 2014 that held me back. Adopting a vigilance against self-defeating thoughts must be maintained daily. That is what I really learned. I am not 100% free of excuses yet, but I continue to challenge any notion that what lies in front of me is beyond my capabilities, and I know there are individuals alive today that overcame this and achieved great things regardless of circumstance.

(Morning) Rituals and Routines—What Might Be the Unifying Factor in Success.

BY @multitude27

Day Break. #nofilter

First post of 2015!!!!!!

 

This post is adapted from a post I published at Medium yesterday. I’m a huge fan and follower of Tim Ferriss (follow him on Twitter and his blog to be on the cutting edge of performance and success) Through his blog and podcast Mr. Ferriss has really emphasized the morning routine of the successful and how they vary but can contain striking similarities.

 

The following words are a synopsis of where I’m at personally adopting a functioning routine into my life.

 

 

(Morning) Rituals and Routines—What Might Be the Unifying Factor in Success.

I honestly don’t practice a routine right now. But, I’m developing a system. I am the type of person that can’t have a monotonous life, and routines are monotonous, or at least that’s what I’ve been telling myself. Completely wrong. In all my studying of success nothing recurs quite as often as having a routine to spark creativity and productivity. Maybe list making, but that is often part of the routine! Chicken and egg aside, I’ve put a great deal of effort into the study of routine and routine building in my life. However, to date, I have yet to actually practice my routine(s). To overcome my fear that having a routine would add too much monotony regardless of its productivity benefits, I’ve decided to create different routines for different styles of days. Wait, hear me out—there are core tenets that form the ultimate simplicity of my routine, but I tailor other aspects and steps outside the core to jumpstart engagement in how I want to direct and create my day. How does that work? Something like this: I broke days down into primary themes and differentiate/adjust the routines accordingly.

Each day should have one major goal/tenet:

Brain Dayslearn and absorb at least one truth, skill, or lesson.

Fitness DaysFocus on health and fitness, with a major workout or mission accomplished

Creative DaysMust create one item. Whether that’s a cog to a larger creation or a finalized product.

Money DaysCreate Income/Profit. Goals and target numbers set and strived for. Financial Management and Improvement.

Love Days—purposefully free of routine…spontaneity and freedom rule. Days devoted to love, and enjoying the moment.

Macro with some good morning Dew

Macro with some good morning Dew

 

What makes each day different is the desired outcome and goal. The goal overall is to have systems in place that make each morning an enjoyable and effective way to start my day. Designing the differences in the routines is in accordance with these goals. I wouldn’t say that each day is fully set out yet, in total detail but some things have been established. Each day gets it’s own musical accompaniment to the routine based on how I’m setting the tempo for the day. For instance, fitness days are geared towards higher tempo music to induce a more intense frame of mind before training. I believe certain days don’t need music.

The inclusion of a day free of routine I felt necessary, to avoid negative self talk and criticism. I tend to gravitate towards harsh self-appraisal so this can insulate me. Go on? A day where I can be free and spontaneous built within the greater framework of a structured routine system alleviates me from pressure or need to berate my failure. After all who can be mad at a day spent in freedom, love and pursuing the enjoyment of our limited time in this plane of existence? So I broke routine? End of the world? No. Not unless I can’t look at myself in the mirror at the end of the day and say that I lived my way and no day is bad. Which is never.

The purpose of this wasn’t to long windedly explain that I’ve got a different way of routinizing life, the purpose was to share what gets results and that’s why if you’re still reading you ultimately clicked this story.

My routine system I’ve discussed is complicated, but it suits me because I’m complicated as well. That being said I do know that a high level of complication can ultimately defeat the real purpose of a routine…to simply do tasks in a manner that doesn’t require the level of conscious thought it would to independently accomplish these tasks: with the overall system leading to higher functioning as a human.

Here is the simple stuff. What have I found to work for me and common among the successful?

COMMONALITIES AMONGST DAYS:

  • • Each routine should include the sourcing/planning/preparing of the day’s first meal.
  • • Make Bed
  • • Hydration—8–20 oz. of water.
  • • Some form of affirmative thought/visualization/gratitude/meditative time
  • • A baseline minimum physical activity: Yoga/Stretch, 200 pushups, breathing exercises.

Following these activities I would tailor the following steps to the day. Creative days would involve a writing practice with various projects ongoing. Fitness days, a great training session or sessions. Money days, an evaluating my personal and company finances with increasing income and profit taking center stage. Brain days, deeply immersive study of a subject of my choosing. Love days, who knows?

Overall, I think that using these commonalities as a foundation and building off of them can prove very beneficial. The rest of your day already has a sense of purpose and accomplishment. You’ve followed a routine, and that’s a key to reaching a happy and successful life. Ask anybody. Anybody that you consider to be successful, and see if they don’t have some form of routine to become more effective.

 


 

Any thoughts or comments? What do you do that is different or similar to my set up? Am I crazy? Let me know in the comments below or Tweet me @multitude27 on the side bar.

 

Thank you,

 

Brendan